Stoic Gifts: Nine Lines Seneca, Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus Actually Wrote

Everyone knows a Stoic now. The friend who reads Marcus Aurelius on the train. The brother-in-law who took up cold showers. The coworker who says "it is what it is" and somehow means it.

They're easy to shop for and hard to impress. Most Stoic gifts carry quotes the Stoics never wrote. A Stoic will notice. Checking the source is the most Stoic thing there is.

So here are nine lines from Seneca, Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus, sorted by the person you're buying for. Each one is traced to the letter, book or chapter it came from.

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Write the worry down. Check back in a month. Shop the journal →

For the overthinker

"We suffer more often in imagination than in reality."

— Seneca, Letters to Lucilius, Letter XIII, translated by Richard M. Gummere (1917)

This is the one who has already lived through tomorrow's meeting three times. Seneca wrote it to his friend Lucilius, who had the same habit. Most of what we dread, he said, never shows up.

Look closely at the line. It says "more often," not "always." Seneca wasn't saying the worry is never real. He was saying it's usually worse in your head. The Latin word is saepius, and we kept it on the print. Shop the tee → Or the mug.

For the one who keeps saying "next year"

"While we are postponing, life speeds by."

— Seneca, Letters to Lucilius, Letter I, translated by Richard M. Gummere (1917)

The trip. The class. The call to the old friend. Next year, every year.

Here's a detail most people miss. This comes from Seneca's very first letter to Lucilius. So do two more of our lines: "Claim yourself for yourself" opens the letter, and "Everything is alien to us; time alone is ours" comes right after it. One short letter, three of our tees. He started the whole collection by talking about time. Shop the tee → Or the mug.

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The trip he kept postponing. Shop the tee →

For the one whose calendar has everyone's name on it except theirs: "Time alone is ours". For the one who needs permission to say no: "Claim yourself for yourself".

For the one stretched too thin

"Everywhere means nowhere."

— Seneca, Letters to Lucilius, Letter II, translated by Richard M. Gummere (1917)

Six projects. Four side hustles. Three cities in five years. Seneca wrote this about Romans who kept moving, hoping the next place would fix them. In Latin it's five words: nusquam est qui ubique est. The tee prints the Latin underneath. Shop the tee →

For the introvert at the holiday party

"Withdraw into yourself as much as you can."

— Seneca, Letters to Lucilius, Letter VII

Letter VII is titled "On Crowds." Seneca says he comes home from them worse than he went. This is his advice. It's our own plain rendering of his Latin, recede in te ipse quantum potes. Wear it to the party. Step out to the porch when you need to. Shop the tee →

For the one who talks about changing

"No longer talk at all about the kind of man that a good man ought to be, but be such."

— Marcus Aurelius, Meditations X.16, translated by George Long (1862)

That's the whole entry. One sentence. Marcus wrote the Meditations to himself, not for anyone else to read. He was emperor of Rome, and he still needed the reminder.

It's on a tee and on a mug. The mug is the easy gift: $27, one size, nobody has to guess a fit. Shop the mug → Or the tee.

For the one who can't stop scrolling the news

"…for the soul is dyed by the thoughts."

— Marcus Aurelius, Meditations V.16, translated by George Long (1862)

Whatever you look at all day, you start to look like. Long chose the word "thoughts." The Greek word is closer to impressions: whatever reaches you before you've decided anything about it. Three hours of headlines counts. Here's the full source. Shop the journal →

For the one who says yes to everything

"He is free who lives as he wishes."

— Epictetus, Discourses IV.1, "On Freedom"

Epictetus was born enslaved. His name meant "acquired," as in something bought. When he talks about freedom, he isn't talking about a long weekend. The six words are our literal rendering of his Greek. More on Epictetus here. It's on a journal and a mug too.

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Tuesday. No meetings. Her call. Shop the tee →

For the one starting something new

"First say to yourself what you would be."

— Epictetus, Discourses III.23

New job. New city. New year. Epictetus said to decide who you are before the day decides for you. It's on a tee and a journal. The journal is the better gift for this one. Page one is waiting.

For the one on a long climb

"There is no easy way from the earth to the stars."

— Seneca, Hercules Furens, line 437

Med school. A marathon. A business in year two. You've probably seen "per aspera ad astra" credited to Seneca. That exact phrase isn't his. This line is, from his play about Hercules. In Latin: non est ad astra mollis e terris via. Shop the tee →

Two Stoic quotes to skip

You'll see both on mugs and posters everywhere. Neither one is real.

• "The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts." Credited to Marcus Aurelius. It isn't in any standard translation of the Meditations. His real line on the subject is the "dyed" one above.
• "It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters." Credited to Epictetus. It's a modern paraphrase of an idea from his Handbook, not his words.

A Stoic would want you to check. More on what the Stoics actually said.

By budget

• $27: a mug. Marcus Aurelius, Seneca on worry, Seneca on putting things off or Epictetus.
• $30: a journal. Seneca, Marcus Aurelius or Epictetus.
• $32 and up: any of the tees above.

Not sure which line fits? Take Find Your Line and choose For someone else. Or see everything from Seneca, Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus.

If we can't verify it, we don't print it.

Questions we get

When do I need to order for Christmas?
We can't guarantee holiday delivery. For your best shot at Christmas, order by Thursday, November 26.

What's a good gift for someone into Stoicism?
A real line from Seneca, Marcus Aurelius or Epictetus, with its source. A mug or journal is the safe pick if you don't know their size.

Did Seneca say "per aspera ad astra"?
No. His line is "non est ad astra mollis e terris via," from Hercules Furens: there is no easy way from the earth to the stars.

Can the mugs go in the dishwasher?
Hand washing is recommended. It keeps the print looking new longer.

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