Gifts for Introverts: Six Lines for the Quiet Ones

Introverts are easy to shop for once you stop trying to get them out of the house.

They don't want an experience. They don't want a party in their honor. They want the quiet they already have, a little better. A good line from a writer who felt the same way helps.

Here are six, sorted by the kind of quiet person you're buying for. Every one is traced to the page it came from.

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Saturday afternoon, one record store, no plans after. Shop the tee →

For the one who leaves the party early

"ALONE, adj. In bad company."

— Ambrose Bierce, The Devil's Dictionary, 1911

Every introvert has been told they look lonely. This is the answer.

Bierce wrote The Devil's Dictionary as a set of mock definitions, first in newspapers and then as a book. This is his definition of "alone." It's a joke, and introverts get it right away. Shop the phone case →

For the one who'd rather hear the rain

"Silence more musical than any song;"

— Christina Rossetti, "Rest," 1862

For the friend who turns the music off when you get in the car. Not because something's wrong. Because the quiet is better.

The line comes from Rossetti's sonnet "Rest," in Goblin Market and Other Poems. In the poem, it's the silence of someone finally at rest. Lifted out, it's the line for anyone who would pick an empty room over a full one. The candle is the gift here. Light it, and the evening goes quiet. Shop the candle → It's also on a mug and an organic sweatshirt.

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Five minutes in the parked car before going back inside. Shop the tee →

For the one who guards their afternoons

"Everything is alien to us; time alone is ours."

— Seneca, Letters to Lucilius, Letter I

For the friend whose calendar has a block that just says "no."

A fair warning: Seneca didn't mean "alone time." In Latin the line is omnia, Lucili, aliena sunt, tempus tantum nostrum est. "Alone" here means "only." Everything else can be taken from you. Your time is the one thing that's yours. Introverts read it the other way too, and both readings hold. Shop the tee →

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Pie, coffee, phone face down. Nowhere to be. Shop the tee →

For the one who loves a few things deeply

"And all I lov'd—I lov'd alone—"

— Edgar Allan Poe, "Alone," written c. 1829

For the one with the strange record collection, the out-of-print author, the band nobody else has heard of.

Poe wrote "Alone" around the age of twenty. It wasn't published until 1875, more than twenty-five years after he died. "Lov'd" is his own spelling, and we kept it. Shop the tee → It's also on a mug and a journal.

For the one who's happiest in their own company

"The greatest thing in the world is for a man to know that he is his own."

— Michel de Montaigne, "Of Solitude," Essais, Book I, 1580. Translated by Charles Cotton, 1685–86

For the friend who travels alone on purpose and comes back happier.

In 1571, Montaigne stepped back from public life and moved into a round tower on his family's estate. He had an inscription put up in Latin, dedicating the place to his freedom, his calm and his leisure. That's where he wrote the Essais.

You may have seen this line as "to know how to belong to oneself." That wording is from a 1950s translation that is still under copyright. We print Cotton's, which is in the public domain. Shop the organic sweatshirt → Or the tee.

For the one who loves a rainy evening

"Solitude is like a rain
That from the sea at dusk begins to rise;"

— Rainer Maria Rilke, "Solitude," Das Buch der Bilder. Translated by Jessie Lemont, 1918

For the one who's glad when the plans get rained out.

Rilke doesn't treat solitude as something you choose. He treats it as weather. It rises off the sea at dusk and comes down over the city. Some people dread that. Introverts put the kettle on. Shop the organic sweatshirt → It's also on a long sleeve tee and an organic tee.

By budget

• $27: a mug. Rossetti or Poe.
• $30: the Rossetti candle or the Poe journal.
• $32: the Bierce phone case, or a tee: Seneca, Poe or Montaigne.
• $58: an organic sweatshirt. Montaigne or Rilke.

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Questions we get

What's a good gift for an introvert?
Something they'll use alone and enjoy: a candle, a mug, a journal, a sweatshirt for staying in. Skip the tickets and the surprise party.

Is "Silence more musical than any song" from a poem?
Yes. It's line 10 of Christina Rossetti's sonnet "Rest," published in Goblin Market and Other Poems in 1862.

Did Montaigne say "The greatest thing in the world is to know how to belong to oneself"?
That's a modern translation, still under copyright. Charles Cotton's public-domain version reads: "The greatest thing in the world is for a man to know that he is his own."

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